real life struggles
The Struggle is real
The fight for life
Doesn't matter how you feel
We all pay the price
An onion may be able to peal
But we absorb like rice
In order for us to heal
We must do what is right.
So before you judge how I act and feel
Just remember this is my life.
The reason for me to post something like this is because I've got a friends a really good friend who is struggling with her life at the moment she has been diagnosed with a rare lymes disease something very few people have to fight, she is an inspiration in my eyes because she has been fighting since we were teens and she is still fighting, she still managed to become her dream, become a wife, become a mother and live her life rather than letting something hold her back, she is a true fighter through and through.
They say a disease or disorder is a disability, I believe it to be your strength and drive the more you fight to live the more you live your life rather than dwelling on what is wrong, I grew up with a sad generation due to they have every excuse in the book to either not work or take care of the next generation, it does make me sad and embarrassed to say it's my generation that has cause the society today, but not just mine but the generation before is not innocent, not that it wont get worse as time goes on, we also need to realize that as people, our jobs are to help one another, yet everywhere I turn you may say that you raise awareness for this and that, but all it is doing is making the world a bitter place, We have a right for this we have a right for that, okay we get it, but my question is have you ever stepped back and just looked or watched anything and how things COULD end up?
You may have, I don't know that, I have and what I see is people who more and more use Depression which is curable with nothing more than either good friends and hobbies and some family. A lot of people rely on medication for everything, I have a pain, I need Narcotics, no you don't you need to find out what is wrong and you need to find out how YOU can fix it. I am so sad, I might be sad enough to kill myself, okay I have been there, I don't take medication, it is a real life struggle, but again I rely on my family, my hobbies, and my friends to help keep me a float. My friend didn't rely on medication to make her feel better and her disease is paralyzing, she fought to find out what was going on and now she is fighting her real life struggle, what do you think she is fighting for? Her Husband, Mom, Dad, Daughter, Friends that try to help, the things she loves most in life.
I am proud to say she is part of my generation and hopefully she is more inspiration to others and not just me. I am also proud to have her as a friend because she was also always there for me even though she was struggling with so much herself. I hope you get something out of this I know that is just a random person ratting on, but I feel that it is something people should think about.
Another thing that has me going is that how everything is turning out to be. It make me sad that my girls generation has to grow up like they are going to. They can't go outside like my generation for the fear of dumb people doing stupid things. My kids wont be able to fight back when necessary because of today's ways. It might even be a miracle if my kids have the opportunity to go to college or if it will even be an option with the way the worlds economy is going. I understand that some things that are going on just happen, but I feel as though people don't learn from past mistakes anymore because punishment is nearly non-existent, I was spanked as a child, it was not any form of abuse, it didn't cause me to rebel so much that I was out of control, that is on the parent, not the punishment. What I have seen growing up and having kids of my own on how difficult it can be. I feel my dad the only parent I had, who did what he had to to survive and make sure that my brother and I had everything we ever NEEDED. He made sure that we where spoiled just enough not to take things for granted, he punished us because we needed it, he raised us as well as possible and to try to make the best decisions we could possible make, he raised up to have morals and respect not just others but ourselves to. Why blame punishment on people who destroy things or do bad things, I don't feel as though that is a reason and there is a fine line between punishment and abuse and I can understand, but the is a larger difference in the two. Punishment is because a parent cares, doesn't want to see their child go down the wrong path, teaching to right a wrong. Abuse is neglect, hitting to hurt, saying things to bring someone down, ignoring the facts and letting it continue, I have seen the difference, I was lucky to have such a great example but I wish that people would see that spanking, mildly not harshly there is a step to far for and I can see where it can be mistaken, is not always a bad thing. I know this may seem like a pointless rant to you but for me it is something I needed to get out. But if you did take the time and read this entire post I do want to thank you for taking time out of your day to read my rant. I would like to hear more about others reasons to rant, I don't youtube or anything I would much rather put my thoughts into writing rather than just ranting about over media.
The fight for life
Doesn't matter how you feel
We all pay the price
An onion may be able to peal
But we absorb like rice
In order for us to heal
We must do what is right.
So before you judge how I act and feel
Just remember this is my life.
The reason for me to post something like this is because I've got a friends a really good friend who is struggling with her life at the moment she has been diagnosed with a rare lymes disease something very few people have to fight, she is an inspiration in my eyes because she has been fighting since we were teens and she is still fighting, she still managed to become her dream, become a wife, become a mother and live her life rather than letting something hold her back, she is a true fighter through and through.
They say a disease or disorder is a disability, I believe it to be your strength and drive the more you fight to live the more you live your life rather than dwelling on what is wrong, I grew up with a sad generation due to they have every excuse in the book to either not work or take care of the next generation, it does make me sad and embarrassed to say it's my generation that has cause the society today, but not just mine but the generation before is not innocent, not that it wont get worse as time goes on, we also need to realize that as people, our jobs are to help one another, yet everywhere I turn you may say that you raise awareness for this and that, but all it is doing is making the world a bitter place, We have a right for this we have a right for that, okay we get it, but my question is have you ever stepped back and just looked or watched anything and how things COULD end up?
You may have, I don't know that, I have and what I see is people who more and more use Depression which is curable with nothing more than either good friends and hobbies and some family. A lot of people rely on medication for everything, I have a pain, I need Narcotics, no you don't you need to find out what is wrong and you need to find out how YOU can fix it. I am so sad, I might be sad enough to kill myself, okay I have been there, I don't take medication, it is a real life struggle, but again I rely on my family, my hobbies, and my friends to help keep me a float. My friend didn't rely on medication to make her feel better and her disease is paralyzing, she fought to find out what was going on and now she is fighting her real life struggle, what do you think she is fighting for? Her Husband, Mom, Dad, Daughter, Friends that try to help, the things she loves most in life.
I am proud to say she is part of my generation and hopefully she is more inspiration to others and not just me. I am also proud to have her as a friend because she was also always there for me even though she was struggling with so much herself. I hope you get something out of this I know that is just a random person ratting on, but I feel that it is something people should think about.
Another thing that has me going is that how everything is turning out to be. It make me sad that my girls generation has to grow up like they are going to. They can't go outside like my generation for the fear of dumb people doing stupid things. My kids wont be able to fight back when necessary because of today's ways. It might even be a miracle if my kids have the opportunity to go to college or if it will even be an option with the way the worlds economy is going. I understand that some things that are going on just happen, but I feel as though people don't learn from past mistakes anymore because punishment is nearly non-existent, I was spanked as a child, it was not any form of abuse, it didn't cause me to rebel so much that I was out of control, that is on the parent, not the punishment. What I have seen growing up and having kids of my own on how difficult it can be. I feel my dad the only parent I had, who did what he had to to survive and make sure that my brother and I had everything we ever NEEDED. He made sure that we where spoiled just enough not to take things for granted, he punished us because we needed it, he raised us as well as possible and to try to make the best decisions we could possible make, he raised up to have morals and respect not just others but ourselves to. Why blame punishment on people who destroy things or do bad things, I don't feel as though that is a reason and there is a fine line between punishment and abuse and I can understand, but the is a larger difference in the two. Punishment is because a parent cares, doesn't want to see their child go down the wrong path, teaching to right a wrong. Abuse is neglect, hitting to hurt, saying things to bring someone down, ignoring the facts and letting it continue, I have seen the difference, I was lucky to have such a great example but I wish that people would see that spanking, mildly not harshly there is a step to far for and I can see where it can be mistaken, is not always a bad thing. I know this may seem like a pointless rant to you but for me it is something I needed to get out. But if you did take the time and read this entire post I do want to thank you for taking time out of your day to read my rant. I would like to hear more about others reasons to rant, I don't youtube or anything I would much rather put my thoughts into writing rather than just ranting about over media.
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